Hola
@TomH and welcome home. Lot of comments from some real honest and genuine members so far but I just want to step in moment. I can't take the feelings of guilt anymore. Peeps here mean too much to me and my heart hurts. Ok yall here it is.
It is my fault. All of it. iLogical was all over me in private from day 1. For who knows what reason he just seemed to like me. He reached out through IM and we chatted and I didn't think anything of it. I don't want to make this a long story but it spanned over 12-13 months that he messaged me like 20-30 times. Ugh this is embarrassing to say the least and tougher to say than I even thought but whatever I have to get it off my chest.
Bottom line is I'm straight as an arrow and when I mentioned "in the place with no name" that I was getting married 4/20/2024 he went ape shit on me. Like dude and I were in a relationship or something. I was like wtf man I don't go that way, never have, don't have issue with what anybody does or doesn't do but back off. Whelp apparently he had other ideas and said that he was going to perma-ban me and everyone I liked unless I gave him a chance. Like wtf in the world? I had no idea what to do and my lady was like who on earth is this guy. I didn't think he would actually act on it though. I mean we can all tell it happened for the better but I'm hoping you all will understand and forgive me. Whoop there it is.
..and that is why they call me Coco Lopez