Zen_seeker
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Just reading this makes/gives me the twitches.i went completely dry last year for almost three months. it was great, then I flew out to Nashville on a mandatory work trip and ended up binge drinking every night for the three nights I was there. Absolute worst decision was taking that first drink of whiskey. I've been battling it again since.
But, with growing, i've always gained more from the plant through the act of growing than I ever did from the act of smoking. There's just something about this plant and the various ways to grow it that brings peace to the mind. At least, it used to. Anymore i have a dozen plates I'm spinning at any given time, and trying to keep it all balanced and not drop any of em is a hell of a lot more stressful than growing can help with. Suppose I should start putting more effort into exercise given it helps the body process cortisol.
i do love a high end whisky, though, and that's my biggest battle. I drink to deal with stress, but when it comes to Scotch, I drink that explicitly because I love the flavor and complexities of the different distillers. Nothing matches a Lagavulin 16 year, except maybe some of Oban's offerings. A few weeks ago at a wedding I cringed watching an older man and the groom shooting Woodford Reserve... some spirits are meant for that crude method of consumption but not a cask aged spirit that has so many layers that when you shoot it all you get is heat but you don't spend the time to taste every nuance of it. TL;DR: I treat whiskeys and whiskys like wine. IPAs are my go-to for casual drinking just because I don't want to drink a 12 pack to get where I intend to be. A few 9% double IPAs and it's hard to NOT catch a heavy buzz.
Irish on the left, Scottish on the right, and both sides of the family try to convince me their whiskey is best.
Rum was the home family’s fav. I got sick on that a few times as a kid. Never touched it again. Rye is still a good one for a night out…but a lot of folks get mean on it.
Beer was always the go to or weekend fav. But the waistline pays a price along with the body.
I’m one of the few who drink to be social. Used to get invited a lot because I was fun. But I rarely got mad or in arguments.
It just stopped helping when, as you say, outside stresses got to big to manage and no one else would help. I switched to weed to help and save money. Plus wifey likes it.
Things are better now but outside stresses just came back hard. Trying not to lose my shit. Chop problems into manageable bits. But fighting with the city is the slowest most unreasonable intentionally obtuse process ever. I don’t even know who to go to anymore.
So…gardening helps…it’s just not enough.